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Frequently Asked Questions

What do you look like?

I have been told that my face bears a striking resemblance to a young Rachel McAdams or Liv Tyler. I have large green eyes paired with high cheekbones, a petite nose, and heart-shaped lips. I wear light makeup as I have a preference for a natural look.

I do not show my face online or in any correspondence for the discretion of both you and I.

Who do you see?

Compatibility is of the utmost importance to me as I exclusively see those who have a similar approach in forging a valuable and long-lasting connection. Please note that I am (some would say; notoriously) selective and see a very small number of suitors. I am regrettably unavailable to couples and those under 35.

Can I give you a gift?

Of course! While they're never expected, they are always appreciated. I love candles (especially pine or fir-scented!), brut champagne, chablis white wine (or other dry French whites), full-bodied reds, caviar, artisanal teas, and flower bouquets (no lilies please!)

Gift cards to Kentucky Horsewear, Rowe Farms, or Air Canada are always greatly cherished and utilized.

For more specific ideas, visit my wishlist here.

What is your deposit policy?

I require a nonrefundable deposit of 25% for all dates. In the event you have to reschedule, I require seven days notice for the deposit to be transferable. All cancellations within 24 hours of our date require the entire envelope to be paid before a next date is scheduled.

What payment methods do you accept?

Cash, Interac eTransfer, Wire Transfer, WISE, PayPal, and gold coin, bullion, or bars.

Please ensure that digital payments are taken care of before our date begins — they will appear under a discreet company name. If you prefer a paper-trail free method of payment, I suggest using cash or gold. Gold is a wonderful option for those who have certain discretionary limitations with their accounts - and is undoubtedly the sexiest way to fill an envelope.

Why do you have an assistant?

I have multiple passions and projects beyond this world (that make me a much more interesting dinner date!) So in order to ensure you receive expedient responses, Priscilla takes care of screening, scheduling, finances, and any reservations we need to make for our date. She is well-respected in the industry, and is extremely prompt, efficient, and lovely to chat with. You'll find her to be a big help rather than a hindrance, I promise.

Please note that Priscilla works Monday to Friday, so responses may be slow over weekends.

Do you accept reviews?

I feel that reviews are a liability for our privacy and discretion, so I ask that you not mention my name on any boards or review sites.

Do you enjoy duos?

Duos set my bisexual heart on fire. My friends Cassie Stride, Isla David, and Camille Clarke are some of my closest friends and I'd love nothing more than for you to meet them. I'd love to enjoy dinner or drinks together, followed by wherever the night takes us... usually something leaving us with memories lasting for weeks after. I recommend at least 3 hours to properly relax and enjoy ourselves.

Duo photo Cassie Stride
Cassie Stride
Duo photo Isla David
Isla David
Duo photo Camille Clarke
Camille Clarke
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